Once upon a time if any of my boys ever caught me slippin’ listening to any song that resembled anything somewhat in the slightest slow or romantic, I was in trouble. As young teenage boys we were all trying to make a name for ourselves amongst our peers and protect an image of being ‘hard’ and the epitome of masculinity (how deluded we were). So anything soft was considered gay, including music, those times it was strictly hardcore hip hop and garage but of course every man slyly used to bump some Joe in the confines of their bedroom.

But of course times have changed and as we have matured every male accepts the power that lies in the slow jams, particularly when it comes to the bedroom. Of late I’ve been pumping a few (what can I say times are good) and to anyone out there that doesn’t know how the right tune can enhance that moment I’m here to school you. But firstly you need to understand that the moment must be right. You don’t press play for some ‘any’ chick, more often than not its the special ones that get the slow jam treatment, when you know that it is truly going to be a moment to remember and not just a ‘quickie’.

So on that note I’ve picked out a few of my favourite’s, people trust these work, no seriously trust me! No list can ever be complete and the ones I’ve chosen are in no ranking but just a selection of tracks that will surely make that moment a bit more memorable. So here we go:

1. KEITH SWEAT – NOBODY

WOW!!! I said the songs won’t be ranked but this tune is NUMBER 1. This song is truly annointed, it posses something that makes girls go wild. You will be doing yourself an injustice if you never played this, once you press play be prepared to take your game to the next level because she will be highly aroused. Thank You Keith Sweat.

2. TYRESE – ON TOP OF ME

The title says it all really! And Tyrese sings it even better, the beat and tempo of this song is just right for you to get that hip motion going on a new level. Certainly Seductive!

3. USHER – NICE AND SLOW

A classic! Every time I hear this song it sounds better, arguably Ushers greatest song. Try and get this one playing before anything goes down, as this will set the pace for the journey!

4 R KELLY – BUMP & GRIND

SAY NO MORE!

5 AVANT – PHONE SEX

I personally think this is his best song. The male and female role play in this sounds too real! When you put this on she will know the deal.

6. PLEASURE P – UNDER

Now this is a recent hit and pleasure p has done well with this one, very sensual and will definitely enhance the mood.

7. J HOLIDAY – SUFFOCATE

This tune is a banger! Some may have expected so see Holiday’s hit single Bed but I personally think that it is just way too obvious. This song definitely adds another element to the mood and can definitely serve as added spice!

Well to be honest I can go on all day with this list but you have to stop somewhere. I most definitely recommend adding a few of these to the ’situation’, in fact I say make a playlist so they’re ready at any moment! Let us know what you think of the list as well as any songs you recommend.

Peace and Lovemaking

Supernova.

Notable Mentions:

Tyrese – Signs of Love making, Adina Howard – T shirt and Panties, Omarion – O, H town – Knockin Boots, Teedra Moses – Backstroke, Usher – Can you Handle it.

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